MAPed Blue Top Swap, NOT staying running! Please Help?!

[Nanaki]

Okay I did wire the resistor up like that and it didnt make a difference then I wired it like i had it before.. same.. then I removed it all together and it was the same. So I left it off. I replaced the fuel pump and it seems to be alittle better but if I cram the gas pedal it will still bog down alittle. However if I just barely step on the gas i can get it to rev up to 5000rpm ( Might go higher but I stoped there. ) Also before It would only go up to about 2000 and then bog and die. ... Also there is still no fuel getting pumped back to the tank... I ran a new rubber gas line off the FPR and ran it into a coffee can and nothing ends up in there.. I did not find the said washer or anything like it with teeth cut in the inside diameter..

Im thinking that the timming is off or something.. i dont know.. !!